不再害怕遇到渣男,7個訣竅教你如何辨識

    大家一定都有聽說過身邊朋友被渣男傷害過的經驗,甚至自己就曾經遇到過,別害怕,我這邊提供幾個渣男行徑,讓你從今以後遇到渣男可以立馬拔腿就跑。

1.從不介紹你給他的朋友

      他可能會給妳很多的理由,但這邊我們只看結果,先不論是不是你不想認識他的朋友們(那這種情況,通常在男生看來,是你不想融入他的交友圈,不願意從他的朋友圈再去對他有更進一步的了解,通常我遇到這種女生也是能迴避就迴避掉了)。

      通常我們願意介紹女友給自己的朋友,一來是想要認真跟對方交往,二來也是想讓對方透過我們來往的朋友,可以更加瞭解我們的為人,畢竟物以類聚這句話還是有它存在的道理。

      所以當他都不把你介紹給他的朋友家人時,會跟你說很麻煩、或是只要我們兩個人相愛不就好了嗎……種種塘塞你的藉口,那麼你就該敲響你的渣男警報了,要嘛好好說清楚,要嘛趕快離開對方。因為對方不希望下次帶不一樣的女生時,被家人朋友問東問西的,所以乾脆都不要認識,才能讓他剩下更多的麻煩。

2.從不去見你的家人朋友

      這點其實跟第一點差不多,因為不想在你身上投入過多的時間,所以理所當然不會再投入更多的時間去了解你的生長背景以及來往的朋友,甚至你跟他講過的特殊事件也常常記不起來或是記錯。

3.不報備行蹤

      不會跟你說他的行蹤,或是讓你常常找不到人,我知道有些人比較愛好自由,但當一個男生要跟你認真發展關係的時候其實不會動不動就找不到人,甚至如果有什麼需要特別花很多時間的事通常會提前跟對方說,好讓對方有個心理準備才是正常的反應。

      所以如果常常找不到人,又沒辦法讓自己死心的話,我建議可以來個小小的突襲,去看看對方到底在忙甚麼,如果真的只是因為忙到翻掉,那以後就好好體諒對方,如果不是的話,就趕快逃跑吧。

4.不會在社群平台公開你的身份

      交往關係總是一言難盡,告訴你他想等穩定一點再公布,FB、IG、LINE永遠找不到你們兩個人的合照,甚至可能他的朋友家人都根本不知道有你這一號人物的存在,那可能對方完全不想給你一個名份,甚至可能只有抱著玩玩就甩的心態。

      如果你問了很多次還是一樣的結果,那我真的奉勸你,也抱著玩玩就好的心態,以免你到時候投入太多搞得自己滿身是傷。

5.從沒看過他手機傳來的訊息

      跟你約會的時候手機永遠是背面朝上,你看不到任何通知以及來電,也聽不到任何的通知聲音,他給你的理由會是, 他不喜歡接電話也不愛講電話,喜歡安靜不愛手機聲響,而且每次找你都是利用簡訊或通訊軟體,就算打電話也都非常簡短。

      雖然說不看對方手機訊息是尊重對方而且相信對方,但這些尊重跟相信也是建立在你對對方有一定的了解以及過去種種事情建立起來的信心上面,如果你們只是認識沒多久或是才剛交往一陣子,那麼如果發生以上這些事,真的不要盲目的去相信對方,信任!是建立在彼此有一定的了解基礎以及默契上面的。

      如果在一起的時間長了,也根本不需要去特別看對方的手機了,他只要有一點點的不一樣,相信大家一定很快就能發掘到,如果比較遲鈍一點的話,你可以注意一些專屬於他自己的習慣,以免自己被蒙在鼓裡卻不自知。

6.關鍵問題總是含糊帶過

      只要遇到關鍵的問題,比如:你跟誰再一起?你去哪?怎麼消失那麼久?為什麼不接電話…….,一聽到這些就會開始感到不耐煩,甚至生氣覺得你不尊重他,開始感到心虛把一切的問題都推到你的頭上。這時候你就要注意了,他不是想跟你聊其他的,只是這個話題不說謊沒辦法聊下去。

7.在朋友家人面前,批評其他女生或是前女友的不好

      會批評別人,表示在他的行為舉止裡面已經有了這一個習慣,更何況是以前他愛過的前女友,對方也是他自己選擇的。這個動作已經變成了他的一個習慣,哪天你不在的時候可能就在背後評論你。好的男生,不會特別去批評女性或是前女友,反而會尊重每一個他自己選擇過的女性。沒有人拿著槍抵著他的頭逼他跟對方在一起,甚至你可能要想得更多,或許是他以前也有問題也說不定呢!


以上這七點給大家參考,希望大家都能遇到一個疼愛妳們的好男人

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